This is an open blog, a place to open up an unload, either Loudly, or as silently as you wish…….All emails and comments will only be posted if you express the want to share.

This comment made by the President of the United States bothered me on so many levels, I have decided to open this blog to the public.drump

I was a Silent -Girl, although I have met just as many a Silent-Boy. Victims of rape, assault, abuse and then made victims again when trying to be heard.

I was raped at the age of 15, and in this blog I will explain why I stayed silent.My story is not uncommon, nor is it particularly earth shattering. But it did define me in ways I barely recognised until many years later.

It has been 45 years, and keeping silent has done me no favors, speaking out…? Time will tell if this blog helps you and I find a place to break the silence and maybe change some attitudes.

 

The Journey Begins (9/22/2018) - Thanks for joining me! Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton  
This is an open blog, a place to open up an unload, either Loudly, or as silently as you wish…….All emails and comments will only be posted if you express the want to share. (9/23/2018) - This comment made by the President of the United States bothered me on so many levels, I have decided to open this blog to the public. I was a Silent -Girl, although I have met just as many a Silent-Boy. Victims of rape, assault, abuse and then made victims again when trying to be heard. … Continue reading This is an open blog, a place to open up an unload, either Loudly, or as silently as you wish…….All emails and comments will only be posted if you express the want to share.
Where to start? (9/26/2018) - At 60, I’m not sure if this blog is better served by telling my life stories from front to back or in reverse. I suppose  it truly makes no difference, all is relevant yet all is…just a grain of sand. Today as I watch the media yet again take sides on assault cases, it brings … Continue reading Where to start?
See no evil………….. (9/26/2018) - My partner and I have been discussing this of late. The culture of not believing the victim and/or making excuses for the accused. I find it so unfathomable, as I can honestly say that I know very few women who at some point in their life have not been brutalized in some way or another. … Continue reading See no evil…………..
Nothing’s going to hurt you baby (9/26/2018) - Nothing’s going to hurt you baby A fairy tale we tell our daughters and pray that they never endure the pains of their gender, the horrific tales whispered about family members, aunts, cousins, siblings, best friends……….their Mother, Grandmother, Great-Grandmother…………… I’ve taken a step back for a few days as I analyse not only my own … Continue reading Nothing’s going to hurt you baby
Thank-you, I appreciate those who took the time to write. (At least now I know this site is active!) (10/3/2018) - I will always hold your confidence and never “leak”; (I’m old but not that old, no depends needed as yet..LOL) October 3rd 2018 So much has happened over the past few years. My life has changed dramatically but so has the world. I find myself discussing the media and the peoples of the US more … Continue reading Thank-you, I appreciate those who took the time to write. (At least now I know this site is active!)
Why America isn’t great anymore (10/5/2018) - I truly feel this is one of the best pieces ever written,and no it wasn’t by a politician, just a man with a job. His name is; Aaron Benjamin Sorkin (born June 9, 1961)[1]is an American screenwriter, director, producer, and playwright. His works include the Broadway plays A Few Good Men and The Farnsworth Invention; the television series Sports Night, The … Continue reading Why America isn’t great anymore
Time to do a little research and a lot of reading! (10/8/2018) - “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.” That was Margaret Mead’s conclusion after a lifetime of observing very diverse cultures around the world. Her insight has been borne out time and again throughout the development of this country of ours. … Continue reading Time to do a little research and a lot of reading!
Ask me how I really feel! (10/9/2018) - “Disgusted but not surprised.” The fact that the Senate Judiciary would back this half-hearted and extremely limited FBI investigation, just proves that Kavanaugh would have been elected under any circumstances. noun  INVESTIGATION the action of investigating something or someone; formal or systematic examination or research. “He is under investigation for attempted assault.” What we should have seen from one … Continue reading Ask me how I really feel!
“You need help” (10/10/2018) - I was born in 1958, therapy was part of our culture. But I never sought out help until I was 30, I was raised to deal with my own shit no matter what, you never share! I went at 30 years old to meet with my first professional psychiatrist. Trust me, I could have used … Continue reading “You need help”

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